A helpful tradition

Bridal showers are a good excuse to take a break from wedding planning and delight in getting some fabulous presents to start your married life. They're also a great way to gather the bridal party together before the big celebration. Jasmeet Hundal looks at the tradition.

Historically, bridal showers were held to make sure the bride was prepared to set up house with her husband. It is also a fun occasion, giving the bride an opportunity to spend some time with close friends and family members before the wedding.

Traditionally, the maid-of-honour hosts the bridal shower, with the help of the bridesmaids. In the past, it was considered improper for immediate family of the bride to arrange the shower but it is now generally accepted and these days, it is often a friend or mother who organises it.

Aside from receiving house-orientated gifts, brides often give guests small gifts to thank them for coming or helping organise the wedding. Bridal showers also give guests a chance to give the bride advice.

As with many traditions of marriage, bridal showers are not for everyone, but if you decide to have one, they’re traditionally held within two months of the big day and are usually an afternoon affair.

However, today they are often held whenever is convenient, but it’s important not to hold it too close to the wedding date when things are much busier.

Whoever hosts the shower should invite those close to the bride and groom - family, friends and maybe co-workers. The host should consult with the bride over the guest list, and make sure everyone on it has been invited to the wedding.