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Dressing your bridesmaids

By Evita Puccio

Gone are the days of puffy fuchsia dresses and blue eyeshadow – an image that makes bridesmaids the world over shudder behind their bouquets. Thankfully bridesmaids no longer need to be dressed in identical outfits either — a phenomenon reminiscent of unflattering school uniforms when one style certainly did not fit all.

The modern bridal party’s attire has become less structured and more individual. It has become popular to choose one colour and fabric that can be cut, spliced and fitted to different styles for each bridesmaid. This way, each bridesmaid can look her best and still fit in with your wedding colour palette.

Neutral tones - shades of latte, pastels and pinks - are always in vogue but bright colours, particularly yellow for a summer or spring wedding, can be vibrant and striking. It all depends on the bride’s gown. A popular bridesmaid style when the bride is wearing a formal gown is a classic, strapless, full-length dress. This suits most body shapes and the simplicity of the design means you can treat your bridesmaids to some fabulous accessories.   

Getting it together
Try having an informal meeting to brainstorm ideas before you hit the stores. Three to four months before your wedding arrange for a few days when you can all go and look at what’s available. Make sure you get a photo or sketch of your wedding gown and a swatch of the fabric so you have an idea of the colour and texture your bridesmaids will need to match.

With a bit of creativity and research, selecting dresses for your bridesmaids should be more fun than stressful. Don’t be afraid to try something new and different – you might choose an Oriental theme or have the girls wear strapless 1950s style dresses.

The bridesmaid budget
Once the bridesmaids have been chosen, it’s a good idea to sit down with them six to 12 months before the wedding and decide on the budget for the bridal party. Costs to consider include gowns, shoes, flowers, make-up, hair, jewellery, rehearsal hair and make-up and possibly a beauty day in the week before the wedding.

The general rule is that each bridesmaid pays for her own gown. However, you and your bridesmaids need to discuss what is affordable for them. Sometimes the bride and groom or their families will help out.

When it comes to money and friendship it is best to avoid confusion. Lay all the costs on the table and decide on the fine details right down to shoes, accessories and that brand new lipstick

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